Season › 2024-25 › News 'I was told to get out of the club. It hurt. I only ever wanted to help' Ian Herbert, Daily Mail 16/05/2025 54comments | Jump to last In the Daily Mail, Graeme Sharp tells his side of the 'headlockgate' saga that saw him impose a self-exile of 2 years from Goodison Park after parts of the Everton fanbase turn against him as he failed to speak out against the decision of the last board to stay away from games for unspecified security reasons. His role as an unpaid non-executive director and adviser to the board during the club's descent to near ruination under Farhad Moshiri made him guilty by association, in the eyes of some fans. They felt he had aligned himself too closely with Bill Kenwright, chief executive Denise Barrett-Baxendale and Moshiri, the orchestrator of the club's dysfunctionality. Though Sharp doesn't put it in such a way, he was cast into a classic contemporary football maelstrom, with social media an accelerant of suspicion and rumour. An alleged act of aggression against one Everton director which Sharp says he knew nothing about. Claims that Sharp had contributed to the tarnishing of protesters by complying with advice from Everton's security team that board members should stay away from Goodison for their own safety. 'Sharp out' read one banner at the very end of the ground where his goal against Bayern Munich, nearly four decades earlier, had lifted the roof off the place. 'Yes, it hurt,' the 64-year-old says, sitting in the morning sunshine at the canalside Port and Anchor eaterie at Ellesmere Port, on the road to his North Wales home. 'I'm past all that now but it hurt because I wanted to help the club. I thought I was contributing. 'We were told by a security team not to come to games and if it had been up to me, I would have said, "I'm coming to the game". They decided they couldn't take the chance of us coming and something happening. I'm not saying it would have happened, but just say someone threw something at you? 'It isn't as easy as people say. They say, "He should have been there at the stadium", and of course I wanted to be there. I'm being told I can't, whether I like it or not. In this day and age, you're never going to win. There's so much written and things then go from there to there to there. That's the hard thing.' He respects the right of Everton fans to challenge those running the club, as they always have, most forcibly. He doesn't know if Moshiri or Kenwright took a blind bit of notice of any opinions he offered. Sharp had resolved never to return to Goodison. A letter to him from Everton's new owners the Friedkin Group seems to have done most to get him back for the home match against Ipswich, at which he was warmly received two weeks ago. In a significant conversation, Moyes reminded Sharp how valued he was. Quotes sourced from the Daily Mail Reader Comments (54) Note: the following content is not moderated or vetted by the site owners at the time of submission. Comments are the responsibility of the poster. Disclaimer () Ian Jones 1 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:36:18 Looking forward to this thread. Andrew Ellams 2 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:37:06 Not sure a Daily Mail interview is the best way back into the hearts and minds of Evertonians. Anthony Flack 3 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:47:03 As I dont know the facts of what happened and only have the previous narrative from here, I cant bear him any ill feelingsIll watch the goal v Liverpool at Anfield, Bayern, Watford etc and enjoy it !Have a good day all Dave Williams 4 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:47:23 Time to let bygones be bygones. Hes done more than most for our club and was ill advised to accept the role on the board at such a toxic time.Lets be sensible adults and forgive. Michael Kenrick 5 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:50:30 I was in two minds about putting it up, but the rest of the story contains some Goodison memories good and bad stretching back over 40 years.However, the Daily Mail chose to lead with this bit, and I'd have hoped for a little more contrition and acceptance of his complicity and failure to show, preferring to sulk off for 2 years and continue to diss the fans who had been shammed by this disgusting episode from a moribund and doomed regime at top of EFC, until TFG offered him a way back. Colin Glassar 6 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:52:37 He shouldve resigned or gave out a statement at the time. His silence only hurt him. Hes been tainted by association but, unlike Wallace and Grommet, hes an Everton legend and need to be forgiven.Lets move on. We are too stuck in the past as it is. UTFT Tony Abrahams 7 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:52:40 Disappointing read if Im being honest Graeme.I talk about wanting people at our club who genuinely understand Everton, so although I understand the implications of being told to stay away because you might get something thrown at you or you might even get a smack, I also know what the implications would have been for anyone who would have dared to do such a thing if Graeme Sharp, had stood alone against his very incompetent friends in the boardroom.I agree with Sharpy, that you cant win in this day and age, but he chose his side and that is an undeniable fact. Andrew Merrick 8 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:57:03 Yes, that mess is thankfully passed, and for me the lasting memories of Sharpy are good ones.We could use a player of his caliber now, and I also enjoyed his post match radio on the drive home.The big disconnect with the fanbase was with Farhad and Bill, both of those pursuing their own selfish agendas, neither deserved to be in control of a club...I welcome Sharpy back. Ian Jones 9 Posted 16/05/2025 at 08:59:33 Michael, no reason for not putting it up and the link. Have read the rest of it and yes, it's an interesting read. For me, it's a different time now. I think the episode should be consigned to our history. It happened, let's move on. Robert Tressell 10 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:00:03 He didnt handle himself well. It is entirely possible hes not the brightest and / or got manipulated by some serious manipulators at the club. Hes not the real culprit in our downfall by any stretch. Agree with those saying bygones be bygones. Time to look forward James Hughes 11 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:02:24 I still do not believe a word of it, 'Told by security not to come to the ground' and a Sharp Out banner. No evidence of any actual threat has been presented and no one has been charged. The same with the alleged headlock. I may be an Old git but I would have stood next to him to protect him. If I had seen anyone putting Little miss dynamite in a headlock I would intervene. No doubt I would not last long but I truly believe most Toffees would do the same. The acts of goodwill I see when I actually get to go to GP and the genourisity I have seen on this site alone is amazing. call me old fashioned, call me niave or stupid but I really do not believe there was any threat. I have seen too many good Evertonians to think they would attack any member of our board, even the serial liar, may he rest in peace.UTFT Danny O'Neill 12 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:07:11 I was very vocal at the time and I don't retract what I said.Out of all of the board at that time, I felt let down by a player who gave us some of the best moments of our Everton lives, that will never be forgotten.Okay, he was advised on safety grounds to stay away. But he knows us and understands us. Other than a few verbals, was going to harm him or anyone else physically.He got it wrong in my opinion. All he had to do was speak out on the genuine concerns we had at the way the club was being run.If, as reported, he was unpaid, other than his seat, hospitality and probably expenses, why would it matter if they dismissed him? It would have been more of a statement to the supporters who worshipped him as a player.In his own words, he didn't know if anyone was listening to him. I would have stood up, confronted and walked if that was the case. The outcome would have been the same. Stay away.I'm a big advocate of giving everyone a second chance and learning from lessons in life.I am glad he was contacted by the new owners and invited back. Maybe there is a role for him to play and this time, his voice can be listened to. He sounds genuine in his regret, but I for one would shake his hand, welcome him back and for what it would be worth, offer my advice. Dave Abrahams 13 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:09:26 Lets enjoy this coming Sunday and give the old lady a cracking farewell party. Nick Page 14 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:17:55 Groomed by Kenwright. Kevin Molloy 15 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:18:33 if he was an unpaid Director of Everton Football Club then Kenwright played this guy like a fiddle. Imagine stepping forward to be the buffer for the chairman against the fans and not even being paid for it. I also recall his strong criticism of fans about the 'assault' on DBB. Still, it's water under the bridge now. And he was undeniably a central part of our glory days. Mark Murphy 16 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:28:32 Like Tony says, if he had turned up at the game without the board he wouldve been a hero, not the fall guy. But then, we arent his boss, to give him the benefit of doubt.Was there actually a “Sharp Out” flag? Or are they talking about the sack the board one with all their images on? Brian Williams 17 Posted 16/05/2025 at 09:45:20 If, as is being claimed, he was unpaid why would he receive a "payoff" together with DBB and Grant Ingles when they were let go?It was widely reported that the "three" people named were paid a total (not each) of £7m. The 22/23 accounts may confirm this.The Esk also tweeted this at the time.Having published financial projections earlier this week, I am very reliably informed that the cost of compensating the 3 departing directors for loss of office totalled £7 million.Will be confirmed when the 22/23 accounts are published. Les Callan 18 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:03:56 Bad news this Sharpy. He should have kept his mouth shut. I wonder how much he was paid by the Daily Fail. Christine Foster 19 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:14:40 On such a day, when it's a celebration of love for the place, it's history, it's memories and the people, the slant of this article and it's lead emphasis on the negative, is so poor but frankly unsurprising. Sharp does sound bitter still with no nod to acknowledging just why the feeling ran so high. Or even giving his perspective on events. He made his choice and I don't think he has changed his perspective one bit. As a player, I think his contributions were fantastic and I would leave it there. Steve Brown 20 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:29:08 I can hardly type through the tears. Keith Gleave 21 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:30:54 For god sake, crap happens in life, get over it. Welcome back, a new era starts. Andrew Grey 22 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:32:47 Mark - 16Was there actually a “Sharp Out” flag?Yes there was, you can see it in the DM article. Dave Lynch 23 Posted 16/05/2025 at 10:45:02 Didums... you sided with a man who ran the club like a fascist... his way or the highway, a liar and narcissistic personality disorder.Own up to it, you turned on the fans and it bit you on the arse... move on and shut up griping. Colin Malone 24 Posted 16/05/2025 at 11:49:18 Legend Sharpy. Always will be.Also. Thank you. Mr. Ardavan Farhad Moshiri. For building us a new ground. Big Big thank you from me.Hope to see you both on Sunday. Jerome Shields 25 Posted 16/05/2025 at 12:13:23 Unpaid Non-Executive Director. What was he doing putting his reputation on the line, supporting such a regime and a trumped up (old meaning, which currently seems appropriate) assault on the Chief Executive, by saying nothing, giving the impression of complicity.A lack of judgement for which he is still trying to give a whining justification.Evertonians are a lot more decent than you think. Come back and watch Everton, Graeme; you will be welcomed. Dale Self 26 Posted 16/05/2025 at 12:44:10 It may just be me but the "I'm past all that now..." really doesn't read well. It seems like he either wants his rehabilitation without reflection on his part in the morass ("just wanted to help") or he simply does not understand the fans' frustration at the time. Either way his sense of timing is stupefying. His choice of interviewer is tasteless. This is not a move by a man getting past it and finding a peaceful path forward. I think I'm with James 11 and Dave 23. By the way, I like the term 'Didums'. Ernie Baywood 27 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:32:18 I've always felt that an ex-footballer got a chance to be very important. A Director, no less. And he clung onto it when he knew what he should have done.I don't blame him for making the choice he made, but he did make that choice and he hasn't seemed capable of dealing with that.When I saw him back at Goodison I was pleased. Not for us, but because I thought maybe he'd made his own peace with what happened.By the way, I'm not sure I believe he was unpaid. I've never seen that mentioned before. Tony Abrahams 28 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:35:32 Best way to get over things is to tell your side of the story honestly, “OR” just admit you was wrong, apologise and then hopefully move on.I watched a clip of the Rapid Vienna game the other night and would always give praise to Graeme Sharp, the footballer, because when his mind was on the game he was a genuine top drawer centre forward, just like he was that beautiful night in Rotterdam!That's exactly what I mean about honesty, Ernie. Danny O'Neill 29 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:42:18 Tony, I watched footage last night. Sharp's anticipation and reading of the game, his pressing, desire to win the ball and then spot Andy Gray to slot it home is everything we want to see in a player. Joe McMahon 30 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:45:23 Time to move on. What's in the past is in the past. I just wish he (Graeme) hadn't agreed to be one of Bill's Old Boys Club. He ignored me in a suite years ago when I asked him a question. So I've accepted that he can be standoffish and quite rude. But in his day was a very good footballer. Tony Abrahams 31 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:49:03 It is Danny, but the way he controls the long punt and then turns, which put the defender in two minds, before then playing an inch perfectly weighted pass into the path of your “Evertonian God” was what used to be described as perfect centre forward play. Pure brilliance for me, and Sheedy gave it the ending that Sharp's approach play had thoroughly warranted! Danny O'Neill 32 Posted 16/05/2025 at 13:50:53 Final point from me on this. I don't have an issue with what he's said.Maybe the timing could have been different and waited until after this weekend.Although he doesn't say it, he knows he has regrets. Don't we all in life? Accept them, acknowledge them and move forward.I hope he's at Goodison tomorrow. Martin Berry 33 Posted 16/05/2025 at 14:51:35 We go on about the "dark sides" treatment of Trent Arnolds, certain elements of our club treated Sharpy no better… shame on us, I thought we were better than that.At the time, he thought he would be a go between and got hammered despite his goodwill by association.Any flak for this thread, bring it on! Dave Roberts 34 Posted 16/05/2025 at 14:53:09 'Unpaid' just means you don't receive a contracted salary. It doesn't mean you don't get reimbursement for things you do for the organisation you offer your services to. Just like all those 'unpaid' directorships many of our Members of Parliament hold. Dave Roberts 35 Posted 16/05/2025 at 15:03:34 I should have added: nevertheless Sharp is a hero to me. That's the bit I'll remember. Danny O'Neill 36 Posted 16/05/2025 at 15:14:33 Martin, I just think he failed to understand the sentiment of the supporters on Goodison Road and in the stadium at the time. He probably did understand didn't speak out on our behalf with our genuine worries when he was in a position to do so.I will be applying to be on the FAB on the 29th. If I am successful, I don't know if I will be able to influence, but I will fall on my sword trying and speak on behalf of us. Thats not a political plug by the way.Everton is first and foremost about the supporters. We make the club. They feed off us, not the other way around. Apologies. This is building up to be a life defining and very emotional weekend. Stephen Meighan 37 Posted 16/05/2025 at 15:55:36 Time to forgive and forget in my opinion. He did side with Kenwright and Barrett-Baxendale. He probably regrets it now. I said a few words back then voicing my opinion on the subject but I think it's time for reflection on this massive weekend for the old lady. Sharpe was a great player for Everton let that be known for all eternity. So, if you're there on Sunday, Graham, enjoy the day like the rest of us. UTFT. Ryan Hagedorn 38 Posted 16/05/2025 at 16:56:05 Bill Kenwright caused so much damage to our club. So much is coming out now that is quite shocking. The whole Kings Dock fiasco died because of Bill and him wanting to keep control of everything. We could have been streets ahead now had that unbelievable arena been built. Our finances would have been so much healthier and you never know – we might have had a buy out from someone who knew how to run a football club properly.I blame Bill and Farhad for the whole 'headlock gate' and how the whole thing was handled. I was angry at Sharpy as I felt he should have stood up for what was right. Anyway, that's water under the bridge now, we have new owners and a bright future to look forward to. I have no animosity to Sharpy. He was a fantastic player for Everton and that's how I'll always remember him. Jerome Shields 39 Posted 16/05/2025 at 17:30:51 Dave# 34Could explain his complicity. But still not worth it. Anthony Dove 40 Posted 16/05/2025 at 17:32:29 Even with all the shenanigans of recent years, Everton is just a football club. Hope you are there on Sunday, Sharpy, you were one of our best. Eric Haworth 41 Posted 16/05/2025 at 18:44:55 Just when I thought I'd moved well past this, particularly with a significantly more important event in our club's history now firmly on the horizon, my blood just boiled, seeing that bloated smirking face staring out at me. Now that I've managed to compose myself, I'll limit my contribution to merely saying we can sometimes be a bit naive expecting our footballing heroes' character to match their sporting prowess. Because I've found in many instances it's far from the case, and just like Joe @30, together with others I know, plus my own unfortunate experience meeting Mr Sharp on more than one occasion, he seems to possess a serious case of being up his own backside. As proven by his latest in a long list of purposely timed attempts, as pointed out by Danny @32 to hijack the narratives to meet his own duplicitous ends. Suffice to say, he's no Seamus. Ben King 42 Posted 16/05/2025 at 18:56:35 Great footballer… but he sold the fans down the road. If people want to (or can) make peace with that, then go for it. But without accountability or an apology, then ‘not for me'. Everyone has their standards of what they're prepared to accept – he doesn't pass muster with me. Brendan McLaughlin 43 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:23:29 Only 43 posts on ToffeeWeb and many conciliatory.We're growing up. Brian Williams 44 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:31:55 I think it's merely a case of more important things afoot, Brendan. Brendan McLaughlin 45 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:36:14 Brian #44,I think most ToffeeWebbers can multi-task. Brian Williams 46 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:41:04 The Sharp situation just isn't of much interest to most of us. Brendan McLaughlin 47 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:42:53 Brian #46,That was the point I was making. Peter Mills 48 Posted 16/05/2025 at 21:55:09 There are three areas where I lost respect for Graeme Sharp. Firstly, I thought he put his slippers on around the time Tony Cottee signed, and became part of a clique of the old guard players. Secondly, he colluded in the disgraceful putting down of the supporters who adored him.Thirdly, he has shown no sign of reflecting on his actions. A self-pitying interview with the Daily Mail — really?However, he was a crucial part of a magnificent team. We haven't had many of them. So I will applaud him for that, should he appear on Sunday. Mike Connolly 49 Posted 16/05/2025 at 22:21:24 I think Sharp was a great player but always been a snide against the fans. just dropped in that security advised him not to go. Sharps comment. (I'm not saying it would have happened, but just say someone threw something at you?) So, he obviously knows nothing about our fans. They would never attack a legend of the 80s. Same thing with Andy Gray Knocked us back for Sky and then when commentating on our match he had a big escort into the ground. Farhad should get welcomed into the ground he did put cash in. The stadium would never have happened; we have seen the failed attempts before he got involved UTT Bill Watson 50 Posted 17/05/2025 at 03:55:30 If Sharp was unpaid then what had he to lose (apart from his expenses etc) by speaking out on the 'headgate' lies? By staying silent he was as complicit as the rest of them.To me, he's more of a leg end than a legend. Brendan McLaughlin 51 Posted 17/05/2025 at 06:51:36 OK 51Meanwhile the Hillly Dicky thread nears 200 Dave Abrahams 52 Posted 17/05/2025 at 10:01:36 Brendan (various),The people who support Sharp on this subject annoy me more than Sharp. He knows what he did and has to live with it. He's in no danger when he comes to Goodison — he knows that as well. Ray Jacques 53 Posted 17/05/2025 at 22:41:19 He should have put his head above the parapet and spoken out.Easy for me to say, more difficult to do.The horrors that ran Everton are now gone so hopefully Sharpey can move on alongside the rest of us. Colin Crooks 54 Posted 18/05/2025 at 06:33:45 As Jesus said - "Let he without sin cast the first one".We none of us have led unblemished lives. We've all made foolish decisions and we have all been badly advised. I would rather concentrate on his fabulous contribution to our history as a player.Life's just to fucking short. Time to forgive and forget Add Your Comments In order to post a comment, you need to be logged in as a registered user of the site. » Log in now Or Sign up as a ToffeeWeb Member — it's free, takes just a few minutes and will allow you to post your comments on articles and Talking Points submissions across the site. How to get rid of these ads and support TW © ToffeeWeb